Support network: find companionship during menopause
Author: Issviva Team
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17 Feb 2025
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Have you ever felt misunderstood when you try to discuss the ups and downs of menopause and receive unempathetic responses? It's common to feel this way during this stage, but did you know that you don't have to go through it alone? Having a support network will help you get through this phase in a more positive way. Stay here and let's discover together the extraordinary power of female solidarity and how you can find a tribe.
Menopause is a natural process that brings with it different challenges. Hot flashes, insomnia and mood swings often affect emotional well-being. Through a support network it is possible to share your experiences with other women going through similar situations.
This exchange helps to ease the emotional burden, brings comfort and helps you understand that you are not alone. It is no secret that women, at this stage, often experience changes in their interpersonal relationships.
Occasionally, moments arise when you experience low self-esteem or insecurity about your body. A support group allows you to talk openly about these feelings and even receive practical advice.
In addition, these connections can help you understand how to set boundaries in your relationships (1).
There are multiple ways to find your support network. Local communities are a great place to start. Look for groups at community centers, gyms or libraries. Many organisations offer workshops and talks on menopause, how to improve communication and many other topics. The idea is to meet other women with similar experiences (2).
If you prefer the digital environment, social networking is a powerful tool. There are communities on websites dedicated exclusively to menopause. There are virtual spaces and applications designed for women in this phase. Many of these options offer anonymity and flexibility. They are ideal solutions if you don't feel comfortable sharing in person at first. Such environments also allow you to share experiences, tips and resources from the comfort of home. Explore specialized forums, where relevant topics such as menopause and anxiety disorder, whether it is convenient to make solo female travel during this stage and many more topics are discussed (3).
If one of your personal goals is to join a community, keep in mind that it doesn't always happen spontaneously. Here are some ideas for making the first move(4):
Seek out common interests. Participate in activities you enjoy, such as yoga classes or book clubs.
Be open to dialogue. Share your experiences with family or friends. Often, a small comment opens unexpected doors.
Use technology. Sign up for platforms designed to connect with people who share similar interests.
Participate in specific events. Attend conferences or lectures on hormonal changes, good sleep or related topics. There is always room to learn and meet new people.
Once you find your circle be sure to strengthen it. Honest and open communication is key to strengthening ties. Respond to messages, attend meetings and show genuine interest in each other's stories.
Also, organise activities that keep the group active, such as outdoor walks or meditation sessions. These dynamics foster bonding and reinforce the collective commitment to a more fulfilling life (5).
A circle of trust transcends verbal exchange. Women are able to offer practical help in difficult moments.
For example, it can be valuable to share strategies if a friend is facing insomnia, deciding on a change of career at 40 or needs advice on how to improve her self-esteem.
On the other hand, these networks are perfect for sharing resources related to health and wellness. Exchange recommendations on books, podcasts or apps that address content such as hormonal transition and self-care. It is necessary to maintain a healthy lifestyle during this stage. Having the support of other women is motivating to adopt positive habits (6).
Menopause is a time of growth and reinvention, not just negative symptoms. Building a supportive community allows for sharing experiences and learning from each other. Emotional and practical support promotes overall well-being, reduces stress and improves your quality of life.
Similarly, by interacting with other women, it is possible to learn how to improve communication in a partnership. This strengthens your relationship and fosters greater mutual understanding. Remember that during the menopausal transition, emotional and physical changes often lead to misunderstandings (7).
Whether you are just beginning to experience symptoms or have been going through the process for years, forming a support network will transform the way you cope. Don't underestimate the power of mutual support, as it can make a real difference.
Connect with other women, share your experiences and enjoy the emotional and practical benefits of a strong community. This is your time to grow and learn, find your tribe and make this time unforgettable!
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